I bought my own Mother's Day cards for this year. I don't even feel shame around it.
I found the perfect card for my 8 year old to give me.
You see, we were at soccer practice a few days ago and he happened upon a ladybug. He was so excited (for whatever reason ladybugs seem like a rare find in Hawaii).
He chased that ladybug with me for a good 15 minutes. Catching it, then watching it fly away, then catching it again. It was just this cute special memory we had waiting for big brother's game to begin.
A few days later I'm shopping at Whole Foods and I get distracted by the card section.
There's this adorable papyrus card with flowers in a heart shape and a little ladybug attachment on it. It's the perfect card for him to give me. I can just see his proud little face as he hands it to me, and his little voice piping "remember Mama, the ladybug".
So I bought it and gave it to my husband, and said "have Finn give this to me for Mother's Day."
What else is that, but being a Mom.
Moms, forever thinking how to make a situation the best, how to alleviate the stress on others, and to considers everyone's feelings before our own.
Sure, we are tired, we are busy, and sometimes we just want to feel like a human being who doesn't smell like lukewarm coffee and spit-up.
Motherhood is a beautiful chaos, but your gift guide shouldn't be. I've rounded up the 10 things that are actually on my radar this year.
These aren't just 'stuff'—they are survival tools, sanity-savers, and a little bit of luxury because, frankly, we’ve earned it. So whether you add it to your wish-list, or just get it for yourself because you deserve it, I hope you enjoy!
1. Megababe Thigh Rescue Gel
The 'Summer in the City/Mom on the go' MVP. No more chafe, no more 'thigh-fire.' Just smooth sailing (and walking). It’s basically confidence in a tube, and I promise you this WORKS!
$14 & available at Target & Nordstrom.
2. Chanel Chance Body Lotion
Because if I’m going to be covered in sticky fingerprints, I’d at least like to smell like a French vacation.
It’s the ultimate 'treat yourself' moment. I am obsessed with the large pump, it sits in my bathroom and literally gives me goddess energy even when I'm just on the way to sit in school pick-up traffic for an hour.
$100 Chanel, Nordstrom.
3. Iles Formula Hair Mask
Postpartum hair loss is real, but so is this mask. It turns 'mom-bun-frizz' into actual silk. It’s a spa day for your scalp.
$78 Revolve, Neiman Marcus
4. Baby Blues Magnesium Mom Calm Gummies
My secret weapon for when the 'Mom-xiety' hits or the kids are jumping off the sofa at 8 PM. They taste delicious and actually help you chill.
$29 babyblues.care /Amazon
5. Professional House Cleaning Service
This isn't a gift, it's a religious experience. Coming home to a house that doesn't have crumbs in every crevice? That’s the real love language.
(varies by location)
6. Negative Underwear Whipped Loungewear
It feels like wearing a cloud, but it looks like you actually tried. Perfect for those 'I'm not leaving the house today' days (which is most days).
$125 Nordstrom/ Revolve
7. Nike ReactX Rejuven8 Slip-Ons
The ultimate mom-shoe. You can kick them off when you're wrestling a toddler and slide them on while holding a grocery bag. Plus, they're actually cute.
$75 Nike.com
8. Plated Eye Serum
For when you've had 3 hours of sleep but need to look like you've had 8. It’s like magic for under-eye bags.
$138 platedskinscience.com
9. OHOM Ui 3 Self-Heating Mug Set
The days of microwaving your coffee 17 times are OVER. This keeps your drink hot while you're busy saving the world (or just finding a matching sock).
$105 Nordstrom/ Crate&Barrel
10. Veda Cotton Blend Bubble Skirt - A.L.C.
The silhouette of the season! It's fun, it's flirty, and it hides the fact that I just ate a grilled cheese crust. Pair it with a simple tank/or tee and you're golden.
$450 ALC
